Step 2: Help Her Rebuild Being patient and waiting for her to figure out what she wants doesn’t mean there’s isn’t anything you can do to speed this process along.
And merely driving past that old trivia bar will get her thinking about that old boyfriend and the fun they used to have.
The more she’s reminded of her old relationship, the harder it’s going to be for her to move on.
Other guys will simply get annoyed, frustrated, and give up.
They may even cut all connections with this girl, seeing the situation as a lost cause. Not for the guy who is patient and recognizes the struggle she’s going through.
This can be a transitional period for her where she finds all sorts of questions and emotions running through her head.
She’s trying to figure out who she is, what she wants, and how she can fill this void in her life.
You can do this by helping her cut ties from her past, and think more about the present and future.
In order to do this, understand that a girl who is getting over a breakup is going to have strong emotional ties to certain activities and environments.
Shake up her old habits, routines, and environments and help her create a new, awesome life that’s even better than the one she had before.
Step 3: Let Your Intention Be Known Being there to support her and help her build a new life will help her turn that corner, but be careful.
If she went hiking with her boyfriend every Sunday morning, or went to a certain bar for Trivia every Tuesday night, then these things are going to be strong emotional reminders of her old relationship.